Guy Disappearing

Okay, I just don't get it....

You get to know someone in email and on the phone. Both are excited about the first date. You go on the first date. Great things happen. Wonderful things are said. Then..........NOTHING>ZIP>NADA. The guy disappears. Won't respond to an email saying hi, I had a great time, can't wait to do it again. In fact, deletes it unread. Even though, on the date, he tells you that you're terrific, can't wait to see you again, etc.. Now if this was an isolated incident, OKAY. No sweat. However...............it happens nearly ALL the time.

Gentlemen - Please for the sake of all us girls out there..... Don't ever say anything you dont mean or won't back up with actions. Be straight up. We can take it, trust me. And it can be done in a nice way too. Say what you mean or be non-committal. Anything other than feed us what you think we want to hear, then drop us like a hot potato.

Ladies, anyone else have this experience?
Guys, so what gives?? Are all of you just slimey rats?


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I have experienced this type of stuff before and I have learned that all men are different. That man that you have right there is dripping with drama and you need to drop his ass ASAP! He is a player and is full of games and does not know what he wants. I think that you should look at all of the things that he is doing and make a decision on whether you really want to deal with him or not? He is trying to see what you will do and if you will chase him around and give him all of that attention. So I would say don't even bother and try to meet a man that will be truly interested in you.